Following Gary’s diagnosis of dementia, he enjoyed the services provided by Alzheimer’s Napier, now called Dementia Hawkes Bay, at Mahana Club. He joined in October 2014 and was part of a small group called “Kiwi Gems” that met once a week and would be involved in community type activities in helping raise awareness of people living with dementia. There was also the opportunity to partake in walks and playing the odd game of sport – lawn bowls, 10 pin bowling, tennis, cricket, pool, darts, and basketball.
Gary was a competitive sportsman and in one of our 'friendly' games of basketball, he managed to fracture his cheekbone competing for the ball. Prior to this he had an incident on his bike with a pylon and bruised his cheek and the basketball clash finished it off!
Gary was always happy to discuss any sporting event and enjoyed reminiscing about his earlier rugby days. Other fond memories were his time on the East Coast and between him and Richard, there would not have been many people they didn’t mutually know or know of, and many stories were shared.
One activity Gary enjoyed was going to the gym on a Wednesday afternoon with some other Mahana members. Age and dementia didn’t stop him from maintaining his general fitness and strength. A variety of exercises and weight resistance training was undertaken. On odd occasions, the weight would get sneaked up when it was Gary’s turn, which he just took his stride and would give his wry smile when completed and be ready for the next challenge.
Members at Mahana remember Gary as a true gentleman with a happy disposition and welcoming smile. Mahana members are very grateful to Gary’s family requesting that a donation is made to Mahana in lieu of flowers. RIP Gary, we will miss you.
Mahana Club Members ( 12 Oct 2018 )